Soul Level Parenting
Our parenting as a society is always evolving. In the past 30 to 40 years, there has been a push to parent the “whole child,” taking into consideration their physical and emotional development, along with behavioral and environmental supports. We have been conscious of the various ways we can support our children to grow into their potential. While this is an improvement from previous generations, as a collective, we are still not fully embracing soul level parenting. To fully take a whole child perspective, we must also be conscious that our children are also unique energetic beings. We are all souls, in human bodies. As the French philosopher Pierre Teilhard de Chardin famously said, “We are spiritual beings having a human experience.” This is as true for us, as it is for our children. The question becomes, if we want to integrate awareness and support of the soul level into our parenting approaches, how can we do it? I can speak endlessly on this topic, but for the purposes of this article, it comes down to two main things: Seeing our truth, and truly seeing our children.
Seeing Our Truth
We try our best to parent our kids and give them what they need. What we think they need is based on our lens of them, which is based on our own personal experience. Often it is related to what we experienced as a child. We often unknowingly project our wounds onto our children. For example, if we carry a people pleaser wound, we may be overly conscientious to strangers, and carry a concern that our child may be disruptive, which may cause us to be very strict with our children in public. If our children don’t easily comply, we then may begin to see our children as disruptive and disobedient. We project our fears and traumas on our children. It is just part of being human. It is through our wounds, that we hurt those we love. As conscious adults, we choose to heal our wounds to protect those we love from pain. The first step in healing is the willingness to look in the mirror, and find the truth about ourselves. This is how we heal ourselves, and future generations. I specialize in helping people uncover their truth, to see the things that we have not allowed ourselves to see. Healing is fully knowing ourselves, and loving ourselves throughout the journey of self-exploration. This can be done in many ways, and one of the most impactful is through an Akashic Record Soul Profile & Karma Reading.
Truly Seeing Our Children
We have the capacity to truly see our children for who they are. Unfiltered, without projection, whole, and true. It is a beautiful thing to truly see our children, to see their light shine in the uniqueness of who they are. When we see our children in this truth, they feel deeply loved and accepted. It’s divine. But to reach this point, we have to work through our own illusions of who they are. The illusions block us from truly seeing our children for the unique energy that they are. We live in a very magical time, where soul level information is more easily accessible than in the past. Accessing this information helps us to work through illusions. On behalf of our kids, we can pull up their soul’s unique history and composition so that we can fully understand them. We can learn what their gifts truly are, versus what we think they might be, or what we hope they might be. We can raise them with the lens of their gifts and give them opportunities that align with them. We can also pull up karma they have brought with them in this life, which helps to make sense of so much of the resistance you have or will face at different points in parenting your child. Let me tell you that as a mother, it makes so many of the difficulties I have had with my own children make so much sense. When the areas of resistance make sense, you can have a greater perspective. You can work around it with more ease. You have can have more acceptance in the tough moments.
The Akashic Records have been a game changer in my parenting, and they have helped me personally more than any of my experience as a child psychologist. To parent our children the best we can, we first must see the truth of who they really are. For this reason, I offer a Soul Level Parenting Package which includes a Akashic Record Soul Profile & Karma Reading along with a follow-up coaching session to support you in soul level parenting your unique child.
To help demonstrate how this can help, here are details regarding two relevant case studies:
Case Study 1
My client is a mother in her early 30s. She was feeling stressed by motherhood and work and sought out a reading as a form of self-care and to know herself more deeply. She is a self-described “control-freak.” She initially purchased an Akashic Record Soul Profile & Karma Reading and felt it brought incredible clarity to her life. The biggest take away for her was that her natural neuroticism made sense to her now. It was rooted in her soul’s gifts associated with order and organization.
A few months later, she reached out because although she had more self-compassion for her neuroticism, she began to feel that the composition of her soul was clashing with her son’s personality. She purchased the Soul Level Parenting Package to help her to learn more. She reported that her 3-year-old son was the most stubborn child she had ever met. He would not follow any of her directions, did everything the opposite of how she advised, and had violent outbursts when she tried to create boundaries and expectations, that she thought were appropriate for his age. She spoke with the pediatrician who tossed around possible diagnoses, such as Oppositional Defiance Disorder and Emotional Disturbance which terrified her. The pediatrician advised that her son needs boundaries but should be given more choice and control over his environment, which may lessen his outbursts. My client felt somewhat conflicted. She understood choices will give him a sense of control, but she also felt that as a mother, her son needed to listen to her.
Through the Akashic Records, we discovered that at the core of her son’s soul, is a deep desire for a sense of freedom. This was articulated through details of past lives, where freedom was a major theme for this particular soul. As a child, this is very difficult to experience because at the age of 3, there is hardly any freedom. The pediatrician’s recommendation for her son to be given choices, was a good one because that would give her son a sense of more freedom. It was interesting to see how her own desire for control was driven by her sense of order and organization, while her son’s desire for control was around freedom. They both desired control, but the functions were different. She learned to be conscious of this, and make choices that allowed her son to experience a sense of freedom. This helped her to be much more accepting of his internal experience. She began to see how a lack of a sense of freedom was in some ways soul crushing for him, which explained the outbursts. Her fears of him having a psychological diagnosis diminished as she understood the root of his personality style, and found that by understanding it, by seeing it, something calmed in her son too. There was a new resonance in their energy. She was seeing him at the soul level. She understood the inner workings of what made him tick at a deeper level, and she naturally developed more empathy and less resistance towards him. This was sensed by her son, as he felt seen.
Power struggles still exist at times in this dynamic, but the mother now has more knowledge and clarity. When she finds herself digging in her heels against her son, she also seeks out other ways to offer him a sense of freedom. We all need different things and it is beautiful that she can give her son what he needs in this lifetime. He will grow feeling understood by her.
Case Study 2
A client who had been working with me for some time had a daughter who was 11, going on 17. She felt some turbulence in their relationship as her daughter was approaching adolescence. She saw that her daughter’s friendships were becoming more and more important to her, and her mother wasn’t particularly happy with the friends she was connected with. The mother wanted to prepare herself for how to parent her daughter as a teenager.
It came through that her daughter has a gift of love, which emanates freely from her energy. She also carried with her karma around abuse. She experienced extensive abuse in the context of romantic relationships in her past lives, and her energy seemed to attract narcissism. The Akashic Records revealed that her daughter is more likely to be taken advantage of and victimized, in this lifetime.
When I shared this information with her mother, it resonated. She had never really thought about it, but in reflecting back, she saw how her daughter has been too tolerant of unkind children since she was in pre-school. She seemed to attract children who her mother described as being “takers.” She felt that other people weren’t as good of a friend to her daughter, as she was to them. Her mother instantly wanted to protect her daughter and separate her from her friends, but through our coaching she handled it more delicately. She began to bring into her daughter’s awareness that some people are truly unkind. Not everyone is a safe person. She shared stories from the media of women in narcissistic relationships, to use as conversations points to help her daughter to be more discerning. She wanted to show her daughter that her energy, that her love, is truly a gift. That love is only worthy of those who are able to reciprocate. While this is a lesson that is good for all children, it isn’t something that was in this particular mother’s awareness as needing to be a priority for her daughter, prior to the Akashic Record Reading. As time went on, she helped her daughter to set some important boundaries with friends, which are important skills to have prior to entering romantic relationships down the line. The mother feels that she is able to take every opportunity now to teach her daughter about setting appropriate boundaries in relationships. With this new awareness, she knows she is doing everything she can to help her daughter have the tools to overcome her karma of abuse, as she grows into a woman.
Consent
I never do an Akashic Record Reading without soul-level consent. If you purchase a Soul Level Parenting Package, I will connect with your child’s energy and ask their soul for consent. If consent is not given by your child (regardless of age), I can not do the reading. Your child’s soul must be engaged in the process for me to access their information. I will also not ask leading questions when I am in the Akashic Records. I will stay open and clear and act as a channel for your child’s soul to bring forth what is in the highest good to come into knowing at that moment in time. The reading provides a platform for your child’s soul to communicate with you.
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